Oh so you wanna be the man do ya?
Well I’m RichBz and welcome to Honesty 101!
Listen – you wanna be the man, so come on with these games.
What games you ask?
Playing with women’s hearts.
RichBz said it and will say this Grow UP!!!
Black men, White men, Brown Men, Yellow Men, and Blue Black Men – all men have the ability to cheat and a lot have. I am not going to go as far as to say all men have cheated because that would be too hard of a generalization.
But how do you think it is so many stories of heart ache and pain coming from the woman’s perspective about this topic?
Let’s be real – It’s not one man of each color running around and hittin and quitten all these women and making it bad for everyone.
And I will say this – Men who may have cheated in the past may not be cheating now. Maybe they have grown up and become the man and have put away childish behaviors.
But being grown up doesn’t mean in age because there are some 50 plus year old boys out there taring the streets up. Putting it down on anything walking.
Now this is not the behavior of the man. The man doesn’t do something just because it feels good today.
Remember we are thinking men. We look at a situation and take in all information about that subject and come to a conclusion and that is where we stand.
The man will look at the whole picture. So let’s do that now.
What are the pro’s and cons of cheating.
Here are some pro’s:
Feels Good for about 7-10 mins
You can tell your boys you hit that
Sneaking around can be exciting
the get back for something your woman did to you
I think that about wraps it up for pro’s
Now what about the cons:
Catch a disease
you can’t tell anyone you hit that duh – you’re married
you can get caught by your girl
you can get caught by her man
she could get pregnant
she could lie and say you raped her
your woman could be setting you up
if you didn’t tell the woman you are cheating with you had someone you could get your car key’d
tires flattened
clothes set on fire
or various other vendictive things that women come up with when you have not been honest with them
I’m pretty sure you could think of some other cons that I didn’t mention.
So again to be honest, now with yourself – because that is what the man does, the very first person they are honest with is themself.
Is it – or better yet for you who have cheated – was it worth it?
I’m pretty sure that even if you don’t cheat anymore you are probably still reaping a harvest from that which happened years ago.
So for my young men out there just don’t go that route.
It may look tempting and your “boys” may tease you about not having as much sex as them. But the man should always be striving for peace.
Peace in themselves
Peace in relationships
and
Peace in their environment
Not to mention if they are joking you then you know they are not striving to be the MAN – and the man hangs out with other men of character because the man cannot hang out with boys.
It just doesn’t feel right.
Now we get to the real nitty gritty.
How do you handle when a woman is coming on to you – but – you are taken.
Now hold on – don’t give me that I’m not married Richbz I just have a girlfriend crap. Oh Ok – Mister I just have a girlfriend. Let’s talk about that.
If you and your girlfriend are on a date or even just driving down the street. You notice another girl looking at you. I said looking at you. Come on we are being honest here – you know the look. It’s not like you see on the movies – they sitting across the bar licking a cherry and tying the stem with their tongue. Or deep throating a banana.
She looks at you with the slight double take. You can see – even from a far – her eyes open wide – and her pupils dilate but when she notice you looking she slightly looks away but quickly looks back to see if she can catch you looking.
Remember now you are with your girlfriend and all this is happening really fast. Nano-seconds.
You keep looking don’t you?
Yeah you hunk of a man candy you.
You keep looking and motion to her to come closer and talk to you. And you say hey girl – here is my number – matter of fact let’s blow this popsicle stand.
NO YOU DON’T – You sucker MC – as soon as you catch her looking at you – you immediately look at your girlfriend then you start looking at the roof of your car or the ceiling in the restaurant and you probably start beat boxing or humming. You may even say to your girlfriend – look at that girl shoes – do you like those? Do you want me to get you some like that.
Sucker MC
Be honest – we are the man – and we are honest. So when you notice a girl coming on to you
– STOP –
Got-cha
As THE MAN majority of time you will not even notice a girl coming on to you because that is not your focus. It’s like Star Trek – You are on a peaceful mission of exploration – to boldly go where no man has gone before – and it’s not in that women’s pants!
It’s to go deep into self and connect with the God inside you which raises your thoughts to a plain that is much higher than the physical.
This will enable to you connect with the woman equivalent thought process.
The Man never lowers his thought vibration – just because a woman appears pleasing on the eyes. The man feels the vibration of the woman and should know from the first interaction that is the woman designed for him.
You are the man and the man because of spending time with himself and the connection of the God within him knows – without doubt – what he wants and what aligns with his higher purpose.
Also, the man is not about them games. The man will wait for the one that aligns with him and in the mean time build up himself, his family, his business, and his community until he finds the one that is supposed to walk beside him.
So do men cheat? The answer to this question is NO! Do boys cheat? I will let you answer that question.
Just remember,
I don’t know about anywhere else – but around here – I will think like the Man – I will talk like the Man – and I will walk like the Man – because I AM THE MAN.
Let’s say that last part again
I AM THE MAN
Join me next episode where we are going to go a little bit deeper –
and touch on the topic – you know – we may even go really hard on the topic – Sex, Love, and Fetishes. Yeah we are going to jump on that – next episode.
I wanna thank each and every man that has come before me and was able to be The Man in all situations before this podcast ever existed. And I want each and every listener to know that it is possible for a man to be honest and not sleep with everything walking. Wait for the real one – the real one for you – you will be happy you did.